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A little common sense goes a long way. You may have to be a little flexible to fit in, not because she is a woman, but because she is a HUMAN BEING.
If you were obviously upset, or angry, or whatever, wouldn't YOU be easier to talk to if the person talking to you TOOK THAT INTO ACCOUNT and showed a little understanding of that? If you are in a bar, chances are that you could probably get away with far wilder behavior than on the street. But each environment has its own advantages- I'm reminded of Emerson's essay on compensation, on the street, a woman is less expecting you to come up to her, so if you do it right, it's more of a thrill, and more spontaneous, and even more *romantic* in a sexual sense, not a *make the guy wait ten months for sex* sense. The bottom line is to have this attitude with any woman you meet: *She wants me, and all I have to do is take it.* |
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He finally decided that he couldn't go on like
this anymore... he had to be with her. He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her... so he took a big step, bought her a symbolic gift, and wrote her a long, long letter... again confessing his feelings. And then the unthinkable happened. She didn't reply. He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her. She made an excuse about being very busy, and said *I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go*... and hung up... ...but he never got a call back. Over the following months, the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened. |
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home up
Yes, that's what I told her, because I could smell her flakiness starting to come on, and it got to the point where I couldn't reach her in person.
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You know that smell, don't you? When a woman starts to hold back on contacting you, and you can tell that she's either trying to play the old *hard to get* game (probably after reading The Rules but not knowing how to use them appropriately) or she's starting to lose interest.
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